In order to do what you want, you must know what you want and, ideally, why you want it. The most common reason why we want something is because others want it (this is called the mimetic theory of desire). We want a high-quality partner, successful children, a nice home, an expensive car, a purpose in life, financial freedom, and so forth—because that's what everybody else wants. Our desires are imitations of the desires of others. Differences in desires between people typically stem from … [Read more...]
Extending the Map Metaphor of Truth
Truth is the reliability of a map of reality, the usefulness of a model of the world. Maps which abstractly represent reality can be created in different languages (natural or technical) and at different levels of description (e.g., pedagogic, cultural, high-level scientific, or low-level scientific). Scientists are the most reliable mapmakers, and their most detailed maps are low-level and math-heavy. Spiritualists are the least reliable mapmakers, creating maps based on crude … [Read more...]
How to Live Without Free Will
Originally, I wanted this article to be titled Answers to Stupid Questions #2: Do We Have Free Will?, but in contrast to the truly nonsensical concept called 'meaning of life' (Stupid Questions #1), the freedom of will cannot be dismissed a priori. Sure, if we understand 'free will' to mean I could have acted differently had I wanted to act differently, then we can reject it as a mere semantic confusion, because in this case the meaning of 'free will' coincides with that of 'will'. However, … [Read more...]
Should You Never Take Things Personally?
When someone behaves negatively towards you, typically displaying some kind of rudeness, there are three ways in which you can take it: Insecurity. You take it personally by default, even when you aren't attacked on a personal level. This is due to your lack of self-esteem, often accompanied by an oversensitivity to nonverbal cues. For all you know, the other person might just be in a bad mood because he is sleep-deprived, love-deprived, angry at or disappointed by someone else, or suffering … [Read more...]
What Do You Want? On Will and Desire
There are three common types of I want: Egoic desire: I want to be X, whereby X can be any physical, psychological, or social state.Possessive desire: I want to have Y, whereby Y can be any material possession or abstract ownership.Motivational desire: I want to do Z, whereby Z can be any choice or activity. But whatever I want to have I ultimately want because of the state I expect the possession to put me in; e.g., I want to have a fulfilling job in order to be happy, or I want to have a … [Read more...]
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